Struggling with Mental and Financial Issues, Need Help

Hello all. I am dealing with a lot of situational stressors right now, so much that my anxiety is much higher than my meds can handle. I have finances, high bills, a lawsuit, trying to get visitation with my Grandkids, and unforseen repair bills on my one good vehicle. I have a second vehicle that is hobbling along at best and is unsafe to drive, and my sons are working on fixing my truck, but with everything else going on it is just too much. I am trying to get everything done but am also receiving flack from my wife who has suffered 6 mini-strokes and due to mood swings fusses whether things go one way or the other. I feel like I have no support from anyone around me other than the few kids that are helping me. I am also disabled so I can't just go somewhere to take a breather. Do any of you go through times like this? How do you manage stress when it seems to be attacking from every direction?

I’m in a situation where I really don’t know what to do and all I want is the best for myself because I always focus on others best interests and never my own. I’ve kind of lost myself and I’m really trying. But I feel like the only way I can help myself is admit myself because the other option my husband is threatening to leave me for. Says he can’t trust me, basically trying to make me feel bad for wanting to help myself this way. (No, it’s not hurting myself) If anyone could message me and give me their opinion, I’ll go into more detail. But I really need some help because I can’t handle these emotions that come with this and need to talk it through with someone that’s not connected to the situation.