Feeling Like I Don't Belong

I understand why some people might feel this way because there are a lot of aspects to life that may not be for you. But that doesn’t mean that there’s nothing out there for you either. If you do what people expect you to do you will never be happy. And if you keep doing what others tell you to do it will end in things you don’t like. It’s called your life for a reason.

i understand where you're coming from, and it's great to say "well what is normal?" but that question is kinda dumb. because what is normal in today's society is very obvious. people just say that because it sounds good, and they want to attempt to make you feel better, but it doesn't really mean anything. because there is a normal or what is generally expected for you to do in this society, and those things im finding very hard to do. it just kinda feels a bit cliche, yk? like everyone always say this stuff to me but it doesn't really matter because ik it's not true. don't take it as me being mad tho, you were trying to help with the little bit of information i gave and i appreciate. just wanted to share my thoughts on what u said

Ive also spent a lot of time dwelling on the fact that Im not a normal person and probably never will be. But the more I think about it, who the heck is normal? We are all suffering or struggling with things that may seem insurmountable at times. We all have insecurities and obstacles, anxieties. They may be wildly different from person to person but I think everyone is just doing the best we can to get through life. Unfortunately.

Find something that inspires good positive feelings and grow it. Don't let yourself keep worrying about other people's impressions or opinions of you. They don't know you and are likely in no place to judge. They haven't lived your life. Give yourself realistic expectations. If you don't like something, then make every effort to change it. Give yourself small achievable goals. I've had similar feelings to what you've described and this has helped me. I no longer feel that way at all anymore, though it wasn't easy and it took a bit of time. You control you and how you feel and how you think. Perceptions are a big deal