Feeling Discouraged: How Chronic Illness Can Take Over Your Life

Yes and no. I think aspects of my life at certain points it did take from me, but in other respects it showed me a lot about what mattered to me. Also gave me a voice and a backbone I didn’t know I had.

I don’t remember what it feels like to not be in pain and just want to give up. No one understands. It’s so unbearable I get so mad at my parents for encouraging me to try these psych meds that gave me Dystonia. They think it will just go away on its own.

I really do. Two and a half years into the journey. If one hadn’t experienced depression prior to their debilitating medical symptoms/diagnosis, many would experience it after. I initially struggled more when I tried to force myself to keep up with what my “normal” life looked like or what dreams and desires I had while I was fully healthy. What’s helped me cope is to offer my body patience and kindness because although it’s frustrating and can feel like betrayal, I know the truth is that my body is quite literally trying to protect me. I consider my body to be special, and I extend myself grace when giving myself and receiving from others the extra care my body needs. The emotions come in waves, and putting this into practice is a challenge but it proves to be rewarding. If anyone would like to know any specific practices I’m more than glad to share. I hope this perspective offers comfort to others who are doing their best to fight. It can feel lonely but you aren’t alone💝 Happy healing.

yes it's very saddening and is a heavy weight. I love lifting & running but one session I am out for the count

I have fibromyalgia and yes I do feel like it is taking over my life. I cannot do the things I use to be able to do. I have to force myself to get out of bed. I also know that with age it has gotten worse.