Struggling with Laundry Before Surgery

Hey Alike community, I have a confession. It's so embarrassing to me but I need help. I'm going to be facing surgery in a month so I need to fix this. I struggle so hard to do laundry. Carrying it is difficult, hanging it is difficult, and keeping up with it is difficult. Because of this, I have a pile of dirty laundry that's basically my whole wardrobe. I don't really know what to do anymore. I've purged plenty of times and I have clothes I'd like to donate too but they're dirty. I refuse to donate dirty clothes. I'm just so exhausted but I won't be able to do laundry at all after my surgery, it could take 3 months until I'm able again. Please anyone, please help me. I need some motivation, support, advice, or something.