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noelieg

870d

ever since i've been in a relationship, i feel like i haven't been myself. i gained depression quickly after we dated alongside joining uni first time last year. i feel like such a mess and a failure and i don't know why he still loves me when i hate myself so much.

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    • applehat

      867d

      I think going to therapy would certainly help, but I think you’d have to talk about what aspects of this relationship is making you feel this way? Do you feel not worthy? Are you worried about him leaving etc? Definitely talk to boyfriend and be honest and open if you’re able to. If you can’t at the moment, make a plan with a therapist on how to talk this out with him

    • applehat

      867d

      I think going to therapy would certainly help, but I think you’d have to talk about what aspects of this relationship is making you feel this way? Do you feel not worthy? Are you worried about him leaving etc? Definitely talk to boyfriend and be honest and open if you’re able to. If you can’t at the moment, make a plan with a therapist on how to talk this out with him

    • Emma37

      869d

      Sounds hard.. sorry to hear that you are in a bad place. You need to focus on yourself and find strategies that will help you cope with the depression, have you considered going to therapy? Also sharing is very important. Is your boyfriend open to talking about negative feelings? Do you share your thoughts with him?

    • vice2410

      869d

      Oh I'm sorry to hear this....relationships can be hard at times..I hope you get/feel better soon...hating yourself is hard in it's self

    • Angie

      869d

      Hey, sorry to hear that.. I guess he loves you because he sees all the good in you that you can’t see right now. Are you going to therapy?

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