Is it Love? My Husband Wants to Bring More People into Our Relationship

I know. He says he loves me and if I didn’t want to he is ok with that. I just am left feeling like he’s bored and doesn’t want to do the minimal work involved with me being Ill. I feel like I’m his mom and he wants to go have fun. I won’t argue with him over it. Sucks feeling like this I don’t feel like I’m 1 in his book. I left all my friends because they became drug addicts.

Ummm.. no.

I don’t even want to talk to him. I feel betrayed. I feel like this is something he generally wants and is using my physical disabilities to put this BS on our plate. He will definitely act like it’s a joke when I tell him I would rather be alone. He’s trying to make it sound like a fun party. I really thought getting older would been fun different idk. I never thought I would be disabled let alone the only person I trusted use my inabilities as a catalyst for this type of BS. So what now I don’t want to see a therapist for this. I feel humiliated and alone.

I’ve been through this and I just had to sit down with my husband and let him know how the request made me feel. It was rocky for awhile after that but it settled down in a few months. I will keep you in my prayers.

That’s gross…. And WRONG

However, since you're married i understand you can't just leave without the difficult process of divorce. If this is a relationship you want to try to keep maybe go to marriage counseling first? Or talk about other options you two could explore to make sure you both feel fulfillment in the relationship that isnt seeing other people? Personally I've found toys help a lot when I can't give what my boyfriend wants but still allows us both to feel satisfied

While polygamy is valid, if his only reason is because you physically can't do what he wants that's not polygamy. If he's unable to live with what you're able to give then it doesn't sound like he's the one for you, everyone deserves to feel like they're enough for their partner and feel fully loved without crossing your own boundaries to make them happy.

No it's not love if he wants more people in relationship