Dealing with Chronic Illness in Marriage

I totally feel this! I hate to say I think it is something we will always have to sort of fight off our mind but I always try to find little ways to even things out. I can’t do a lot of house chores but I can give him a back scratch or draw him something while I’m confined to my bed. Writing little things or just doing something nice including drying myself a luxury every now and then so we can have money for more of his. I don’t think he knows I do most of the things I do but it makes me feel like I’m giving more back and I do think the little things add up subconsciously. I still feel like a burden and regardless of what he says factually I am but I try my best to show him I appreciate him and his hard work does not go unnoticed and because we love each other it works out in the end.