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DariaFae

652d

just wondering 🤔 does anyone knows what it's like not to have to do anything? I always have a health issue appointments child issues work issues work money bills loans gas for the car food registration inspection getting a replacement key that I've been putting off for like 1yr the list just keeps going if it's not one thing there is always something I have to do I work F-M I have school most of the week my kid needs uniforms this year she grew like a foot from last year and shoes and my daily pain is just unmanageable and annoying why can't I have just 1 day without needing to do something or being bothered. or have 1 day without pain without my back or my neck or my shoulders or my knee or my hip or my ankel or my joints in general or anything

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    • MaryC

      652d

      It will get better. My kids are in college now so things have slowed down allot. Hang in there. It is hard to shove the pain down I know. I've been in passion almost my entire life. I'm finally at the stage where I can relax. It is easy to get bored now & think too much.

    • MaryC

      652d

      It will get better. My kids are in college now so things have slowed down allot. Hang in there. It is hard to shove the pain down I know. I've been in passion almost my entire life. I'm finally at the stage where I can relax. It is easy to get bored now & think too much.

    • DariaFae

      652d

      Plus side my headache went away. 🔥🍃😶‍🌫️ lol might have helped. Only cause I'm caught up with school.

    • DariaFae

      652d

      My migraine pain comment got blocked? This is my feed about life troubles and being broken 💔 massively withdrawing from Tylenol from being sick.

    • DarraStrix

      652d

      I have had almost exactly these feelings myself. So please realize I'm trying not to come across as the cliche "just do yoga" type. Chronic pain makes everything challenge mode. When there are so many little things adding up it can start to seem impossible to chip away at. Ive found that the best thing is to set aside a chunk of time I dedicate to guilt-free self-care time (could be crafting, gardening, a bath, a swim, whatever will make me release a bit of tension) and i remind myself that it's okay to ask for help. Often times asking my boyfriend or roommate to help manage one or two small tasks or to help me prioritize the list can help make it all more doable. They have a different/outside perspective on it so its easier for them and it gives me an external source that's encouraging me and reminding me to take care of myself too. I know it's HARD to take that self care time when there's a million to do tasks pending.... But setting aside even a half hour and making myself pause makes a big difference in recharging.

    • Catsavior

      652d

      I feel the same way. I had a stroke 16 years ago and the constant muscle spasms hurt so bad and have just been getting worse since I'm late for my botox due to moving to a different state. Having arthritis in a lot of my joints and scoliosis in my back aren't helping matters

    • DariaFae

      652d

      why am I soo broken and will I ever have a free day before I die and people wonder why I say we live in hell, or this could be purgatory lol Just a venty comment please I don't want holy rollers please and thank you Anyone else feels similar?

      • DarraStrix

        652d

        @DariaFae you are not broken. You are human and overwhelmed which is more normal than you would think. A lot of people mask really well to hide how much they are juggling so we forget that it's okay to ask for help managing everything. 🤗

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