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Julsz

843d

It seems I never feel good , everyday it’s something different and all my joint ache constantly. I can’t keep up. I remember being young and catching a cold or some other illness maybe once or twice a year now I’m lucky if I feel good 2 days out of the month. Something always hurts , normal everyday activities have almost completely become more than difficult. Anyone else?

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    • Badu

      842d

      Well don’t claim all this negativity always say I feel good and always get a partner to pray with and the pain will leave

    • RefinedByFire18

      841d

      Yes. I’m exhausted 24/7 and my joints hurt terribly.

    • Trina

      841d

      I’m so sorry that you feel this way! I totally understand and am at the same place. I swear my couch has my butt print in it 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

    • Overcomer

      841d

      What did they say? Is it noncancerous?

    • Julsz

      842d

      Today I had a frillier up ultra sound on an enlarged cervical lymph node they found in august last year on the right side of my neck, now I have 2 . 1 is the same one which is now joined by another just next to it. Wtf. It never ends. I try not to worry but how can I not? The one thing I’ve enjoyed since they have come into my life is my granddaughters now 7 and 3 yrs. And I have to force myself to visit with them because I want to so badly but I never ever feel truly feel up to it and have to push through a lousy 3 hours once a week. I feel like I’m just slowly deteriorating if I could prove that I was physically medically sound I could work toward being more positive but there is always something. I’m 55 I’m terrified of dying. I just want to feel good a never ever do. I go to bed at night praying I’ll wake up and feel good but I wake up nothings better.

    • Pugmamma

      842d

      I feel like I need to be doing more. I’m still working part time and most days it throws me into a migraine and I’m in bed. My job is being phased out and our bills are piling up. This is all my fault. Not that I did it on purpose my fault but still. I can’t even walk very far at the store I have to hold the cart and I’m a mess the entire time

    • Bossy

      842d

      Yes praying always help. But you should know that what you are feeling and and going through is real and please don't let anyone tell you it's not. You all know how you feel and what you are experiencing so keep your heads up and just try to keep pushing through and don't give up. Have a Goodnight 💤 Smooches 😘 to you all.

    • Lollie

      842d

      I feel defeated almost every day. Like IM a useless wife. I hurt so bad the only tiMe k can get any housework done is when I take steroids

    • Badu

      842d

      Well don’t claim all this negativity always say I feel good and always get a partner to pray with and the pain will leave

    • Overcomer

      842d

      You too

    • Overcomer

      842d

      Thanks Bossy

    • Bossy

      842d

      I hope you all have a nice weekend free from any anxieties.

    • Beckibb

      842d

      🤗 🤗 🤗

    • Overcomer

      842d

      GJ, I am proud of you because you find ways to be grateful. I don't have cancer or lymphedema. What I have I am in the same position as you and yes I too am grateful for the good days or few good hours that I have. My doctor's encourage me to keep being positive and that it will help in the long run. GJ, keep propelling forward also

    • GJ

      842d

      Yes! I do have some good days (today) but as a rule I have two or three productive hours a day - for which o am quite grateful. There have been days with zero. Cancer and lymphedema suck.

    • Julsz

      842d

      I’m sorry for everyone but also relieved I’m not going crazy. Literally typing this response is hurting me to the point of tears I can barely move my arms I’m in so much pain and the drs seemingly worse since the pandemic don’t give a crap about how you feel.. forget getting in to see a dr in a timely manner I’m lucky if I get an appt within a month. By then I could be a complete invalid. Even then it seems it all telehealth. I literally am triaging myself. Blood pressure, temperature , blood oxygen, etc etc . You don’t have to go to school anymore to be a physicians assistant believe me I didn’t and I’m one the only difference is if you want to get paid for it you need some kind of certification. . Hell I’m halfway to becoming an MD. I really need to be paid.

    • Lollie

      842d

      Oh my gosh you described me on a daily

    • Overcomer

      842d

      So sorry that you are going through. I am like that now. Most times I don't feel well. For me from I turn 30 things physically started to get worse. Don't give up keep propelling forward

    • Feather

      842d

      Same here. Getting older is not enjoyable at all.

    • MissRiRi

      842d

      Yes! I take care of my bedridden husband and everything I have hurts! I’m so tired of hurting!

    • Pugmamma

      842d

      Me too and I’m always exhausted. There are days that up and to the couch is all I have

    • Tigerlily

      843d

      Uggghhh! Yes. I work a couple shifts an sit takes me 2-3 days to recover.

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