Overcoming Childhood Abuse: My Story and Seeking Advice

Absolutely understand, I still have trouble vocalizing what my abuser did to me. Fortunately my mom is the type to press the truth out of people. I'm lucky to have her in my corner.

My advice for leaving would be to save financially what you can, when you can. Open a separate bank account if you have to. And DO NOT tell your abuser you're planning on leaving. Make arrangements to stay with someone should something happen. More than one someone if you can. Pack a go bag with some essentials and hide it. (My go bag contains a change of clothes, pajamas, socks, a pair of shoes.) I know some people snoop a lot so don't write down your plans or hide cash if this is your case. Also, look into shelters in your area. Find out the criteria for staying in one. I would tell as few people as possible about your plans, if anyone. If I think of anything else I'll post it here or DM you. I'm in the same situation and I've had to leave an abusive household before. Hang in there.