How to Get Out of a Toxic Relationship

2 options: 1) tell a doctor you trust your situation (don’t back down, you clearly feel unsafe & know the situation is bad). Tell them what you’ve tried. Say you need help getting to safety. 2) Tell a therapist (you can even speak with a LCSW, which may be better than an LPC) 3) pick up cash however you can and stash it. Whether it’s pet sitting, baby sitting, etc. or a job. Open a second bank account. Do not tell him— cover your tracks. Don’t put an app for the new bank on your phone. Clear your browser history (only that bank). Or stash cash. But don’t cash checks from a shared account. If you do get caught, it’s a “rainy day fund” in case the car needs work or health emergencies (this would apply to him and you). But only emergencies & you can always lie about how much is in the account in case he comes up with a reason to drain it. If you have a friend you trust, see if you can stay with them until you get on your feet. You can also reach out to local churches (you may have to try a few— some are not as giving as others)

Try a homeless shelter or a shelter for women in abusive relationships.

Tried dss don't work I already used my one time apartment from them im literally stuck here I already don't know who I am .

Contact your local social services or DSS. Let them know that you're in a dangerous situation & you need help finding a place to live because your partner is toxic. They can help you find a low income house or apartment. If they can't help, then they can refer you to the correct services that are available.

Friend or close relationship, no one should make you feel that way! If they don't give you the love you deserve you need to get out of that situation! As you mentioned it is toxic, and that within itself is damaging on any level! If you live with this person you may have to look into some other living situation, but be wise and have someone you can trust to make that move! You don't want any fighting or any further harm being done to either one of you! I pray for peace, and that all turns out well! Be blessed 💕