Struggling with Grief: Losing My Motivation

Grief is a complex process that applies to many things in many ways, maybe none moreso than when we lose a loved one. When we lose someone that gave us the space to talk and figure things out, while feeling safe and secure in a way others never did, it can be hard to imagine you will find it elsewhere. I just hope you keep looking. They learned it from somewhere, and I hope you can find it here (there or somewhere). It might not be the exact way that she did (There's no replacing the hole left by your GF, but hopefully we can build things around what she left), but I hope it can still give you a similar feeling. Sometimes this can be found with a good friend, but sometimes it's also worth trying therapy, even if only temporarily, as they are trained to hold space, and in listening while creating a safe space.