Should I Change Therapists?

Definitely need a new therapist. Not every funny feeling is envy. While you have made progress, I'd get a female provider. Especially since "difference in opinion" is pineapple on pizza, not reproductive rights. His intentions might not have been to hurt you, but he did, and had no remorse. Find someone better, you should not feel attacked by someone who is supposed to be helping you.

That's completely unacceptable in my book. If I were you, I would start looking elsewhere. Everyone is allowed to have their own opinions but really, therapists aren't supposed to talk about their viewpoints in your session. It's YOUR session. It is not the time or place for him to do so. It's completely unprofessional. Especially if you don't agree. And to make you cry? Fuck no. He's supposed to be supporting YOU and doing what is best for you. And that is not it. It's definitely not his place. And he may not have “intended” to do so, but he did and that's not okay. I'm frustrated for you. If you really like him and feel comfortable staying with him after that bc you think you're making progress, you gotta weigh the pros and cons. You shouldn't have to be worried about what he will say and definitely should not have to defend yourself and your views. You can meet another therapist and see if you like them and feel them out before you stop seeing him so that you're not without a therapist but you don't have to tell him. A therapeutic relationship is a really important one and you should feel 100% comfortable expressing yourself without feeling like you're being judged or disagreed with on something that is very important. I'm so sorry that happened to you.

I feel like you should definitely start looking for someone who you feel aligns with your same moral background just because that will always be something that is a barrier between you two and will interfere with your healing process. But don’t settle for someone who aligns morally and isn’t helping you as this therapist has.