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Daisyh

658d

(I've never been in a relationship) I was obsessing over this dude for a while and I was pretty sure he liked me to so after months and months of him not asking me out i guve up and about a week or to later he asked me to be his girlfriend i still liked him and was so excited but my answer was no (i didnt tell him no i was too scared so i didnt answer him) but i cant figure out why im so scared to get into a relationship anybody know?

    • skeptic_

      658d

      If you’ve never been in a relationship, there could be tons of reasons you feel scared to start a relationship. All valid, but most likely blown out of proportion. Depending on what you’ve been through (or uhm haven’t) you could feel like you’re too inexperienced, you could wonder why he wants you to be his snd doubt his feelings for you, you could simply be afraid of such a milestone and trying out something so new. Let me know what YOU think

      • Daisyh

        658d

        @skeptic_ do you think it could be i really just dont connect with him after calls with him i just realized maybe this isnt right?

        • skeptic_

          657d

          @Daisyh ohh yeah exactly. If you dont get literal butterflies, you probably shouldnt indulge. Its possible to kinda be attracted to the idea of a person, or liking thinking they’re attracted to you, but that doesn’t mean you’re into them yk

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