Am I Unlovable? Why Haven't I Been in a Relationship Yet?

if you struggle with social anxiety, you could have a fear of emotional intimacy externalized by subconsciously purposely pushing people away. I do that sometimes because of that fear, and if it's not that, then I dunno, just wear more sparkly things? humans like sparkly things.

Maybe you seem to find to many imperfections in someone? Like me, im always nitpicking at people when I used to look at dating sites. Well this person smokes or this one hikes that's a no or he doesn't like horror movies stuff like that. I've been si gle for quite some time. But then, I've not actually put myself out there to be noticed. I just figure I've got to get to my mental health better first. But yet, I don't think it needs to be any better than it is because I am fine the way I am. And if no one likes me for me, than it's their loss. Also, I saw you sent me a message. It won't load but as soon as it let's me read it, I'll message you back I promise.

the right person just hasn’t come to you yet. I promise it takes time. one day you’ll find your person and you’ll feel so loved. you are loved now, just not with a romantic partner. ❤️