Signs that a Relationship is Over: How to Know When It's Time to Let Go

I am dealing with an relationship that's over and I knew when he started making more excuses not to be around then being around me..I still love him..I just know he doesn't love me anymore😥..

If you are unhappy more than happy then I'd say that's a good indicator. The strength to organise an exit plan from the relationship will be there when you start to focus on yourself 🙏🏻🥰 recognise the hurt but stay focused on how you want to feel in a relationship, and treat yourself that way 💕

Like some of the other replies, I also have my share of self-esteem issues I'm working on. For me, what usually makes me fall for someone in the First place is when they treat me with kindness and make me feel safe; they seem to respect my boundaries, they say nice things to me, they want to spend time with me, they want to do things they know will make me happy (without having to be prompted first), etc etc And I feel like I know when that love is fading when they STOP doing those things. The compliments become more sparing, the time together starts to feel like a chore, they start to push or brush off my boundaries, and they no longer do nice things for me. It's usually gradual, but I've always noticed it fairly fast... yet I doubt myself and allow myself to be gaslit. My biggest issue with this has always been denial, sadly. It's all too easy to sit around and hope things will magically be better. Unfortunately, things rarely work out that way :( You definitely deserve to be with someone who makes you happy ❤️ And if you simply aren't happy, the relationship isn't strong. That's the best way to know. Focus on the people and things that make you feel good, and as corny as it is, it'll start to feel better with a bit of time. You'll start to even out after the change, and find room for hope for new avenues 💕

I have struggled with this as well. In my case, it may very well be a self-esteem issue. I get so excited that someone considers a relationship with me, I go all in, and I go overboard. This can make me very vulnerable to abusers and selfish people. Does that make sense? I guess the solution is to love yourself enough to be able to move on from these kinds of people. It's hard. Especially when you give your whole heart to someone. I hope I'm making sense here. It's a complicated issue that I am dealing with. It sounds like you may be dealing with the same issue. I hope this helps.