Is it normal to want your ex to be happy even if it hurts you?

@GracefulKim I agree! It is so hard getting over someone you love so much, but I tried so hard to learn everything about who he was and his personality and his interest, but when we broke up I seen a different side of him that I never knew he had, it breaks me because I don’t understand how I can still care so much when I tried to change myself to be better for him but I ended up getting hurt so much, but I’ve been trying so hard to focus on myself and find out who I am but I feel like I’m afraid of finding someone new 😔

@Hazel420 I definitely agree with you, it hurts though because I feel I changed a lot about myself to fit his perspectives, I tried to be there whenever he needed me, but then I lost both of my Grandpas back in March and me and him broke up in May, and he told me he was done with my emotions getting in the way when I was grieving two loses at once but I still care about him so much, and I was told I shouldn’t look back on things but I felt like I was the only one trying to talk and have conversations but sometimes I question myself how come I care about someone so much that never cared about me and it hurts because it’s hard to move on and how come I still care so much about him? 🥺