Feeling Rejected and Uncared For by My Boyfriend

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My best friend's ex boyfriend was like this and she left him and is so much happier. You deserve to feel supported in a relationship

That is really unfortunate I’m sorry that happened. You deserve to feel support even if you’re giving it at the same time.

Rejection sensitivity dysphoria is a real thing. As someone who is with someone that I constantly feel rejected with, I relate to this a lot. Care is extremely important, and if he genuinely didn't have the emotional bandwidth, he didn't express that to you in a healthy caring way. It sounds like he doesn't have an understanding of how these things can effect you, and an open honest conversation would be super helpful, or if he isn't emotionally mature, extremely eye opening for you. Care goes both ways, regardless of what all of our internal struggles are, and he disregarded your feelings and care for you when he said that the way he did

i don’t think you’re being sensitive at all. i’ve been in lots of situations where people are super into me until they see the realities of my chronic illnesses & then they split or get annoyed with my symptoms. and they don’t even have to feel any of the pain! it hurts because they can complain about pain they don’t have to feel. or they can decide to not hear about it & not have to deal with it anymore but we can’t leave our own bodies. we don’t have an option to take a break. when people leave or are unsupportive because of our disabilities it can be deeply upsetting because we don’t get a day off from being sick & it can feel like it paints us as burdens instead of people. this is almost never anyone’s intention but it still hurts. talk to your mans and tell him how you feel but it sounds like he lowkey isn’t even doing the bare minimum. if that’s the case & he doesn’t care about you, remember your worth. if he isn’t willing to support you in the ups & downs & flat out tells you he doesn’t want to be around you he’s not the one. 💕

Omg your boyfriend should’ve said what can I do to help or aid you while your going through this tuff time instead of blaming you for having a tuff time. Like bitch I don’t wanna feel this way either 😖

Omg!! Your poor thing 😢 You deserve SO much more support than that especially coming from your own boyfriend! ADHD definitely can cause an instability in moods and life in general is tough too. He should be making sure you are okay, not letting you know how much he can’t wait to be without you. I’m sorry this happened ❤️