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Do y’all have any tips on how to get over abandonment issues, I want to have friends again but I’m to afraid that if I get to close they’ll leave me

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    • WordFile

      730d

      @koke I don’t want them to feel guilty if it doesn’t work out though

    • Jules7

      731d

      Ditto...if you find out let me know.

    • koke

      731d

      Express your fears. If they're aware of your fear if them leaving you it's less likely to happen, and it will hopefully also add some relief to your fears.

      • WordFile

        730d

        @koke I don’t want them to feel guilty if it doesn’t work out though

      • hushabye

        731d

        @koke from personal experience, i've found the opposite happens. telling new friends you're afraid of them leaving can put a lot of pressure on them, and that typically lends to an unhealthy dynamic. however, this isn't to say that communication is bad! in terms of "getting over" the issues, there's no end-all-be-all. i struggle with the same thoughts.

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