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nalabean

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i lost my cat today, the day after her first birthday. i am devastated, she was the light of my life and my motivation. i can’t stop crying and wishing she was still here. can someone give me a suggestion of how i can distract myself so i can calm down?

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    • LadyTauriel

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      Do you play video games online with people? Do you have any local friends that can come keep you company? If nothing else, pop your fav comfort movie in. It's ok to cry too. Don't ever let someone tell you otherwise.

    • OctopusArm

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      😥

    • sospuddles

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      I’m sorry nalabean. Thats so sad. Honestly, when my kitty Willow died, I adopted my current cat Loki by the end of the week. Willow was a shelter cat too, and she was in there for 2 years before I got her! I kept thinking, “We could have spent more time together if she wasn’t just sitting in that shelter for so long” and was inspired to get another shelter cat immediately. It was my way of connecting with her life after she was gone. It helped me so much. 😥 I definitely agree that allowing yourself to cry is important. I’m sure your kitty was so special.

    • LadyTauriel

      720d

      Do you play video games online with people? Do you have any local friends that can come keep you company? If nothing else, pop your fav comfort movie in. It's ok to cry too. Don't ever let someone tell you otherwise.

    • Kimm

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      Oh my god, I’m so sorry 😞 I don’t have any advice, just wanted you to know you’re not alone. This is one of the hardest things I’ve ever gone through, so I know it’s isolating and lonely and nobody gets it. ❤️❤️

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