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MarinaV

878d

do y’all ever get treated one way and then see that same person act a different way or post something completely different. my friend lately has been getting mad at my emotions and says she doesn’t have energy for them. she also tried to say I had PMDD without looking into it first which brought me into a major spiral. I then saw she posted in two groups how people with chronic illness have emotional trauma and how we should be mindful of that and treat people better. it may not seem like a big deal but it annoys me in some type of way. we’ve been arguing a lot back and forth because she has a lot of physical symptoms with chronic illness and puts her stuff first. I don’t want to cut her off but in therapy, I’ve been on a path to bettering me and only putting in energy that I can handle. I just don’t know what to make of this. kinda feels ironic that she posted that when she gets mad at me for my highs and lows. I know she doesn’t understand but 😅 I CANNOT SNAP BACK INTO WHATEVER MOOD THAT IS CONVENIENT FOR YOU

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    • MarinaV

      878d

      this last comment made me cry. I went over what she sent me and literally said “I don’t have the energy for you and I don’t want to tiptoe around your feelings.” I’m putting myself first and respecting my boundary I so rightfully need. thank you 🙌🏼 it’s been hard processing this

    • Elyndria

      877d

      Good for you! ❤️

    • MarinaV

      878d

      this last comment made me cry. I went over what she sent me and literally said “I don’t have the energy for you and I don’t want to tiptoe around your feelings.” I’m putting myself first and respecting my boundary I so rightfully need. thank you 🙌🏼 it’s been hard processing this

    • Elyndria

      878d

      Living with Bipolar is difficult, but taking care of yourself is where it’s at! I also struggle with intense mood swings. Most people in my life don’t understand what it’s like having Bipolar. Good for you knowing you don’t have the energy for this. Giving space and setting boundaries is healthy. You got this! ✨

    • MarinaV

      878d

      PinkPupButt: this is literally the last relationship I have energy for at the moment so I’m taking some space for now. I don’t understand the audacity and I don’t want to deal with it but saying that and treating me different, what the fuck bro. she doesn’t have intense emotions and does not get it. I think having occasional space and boundaries is good. I know I don’t have the energy for this and I know I can control that 🙌🏼

    • PinkPupButt

      878d

      yep! the last time someone did that to me they were just using me, I left and started focusing on myself and I can't say I regret it. just make sure to analyze both of your behaviors, I don't know you or your person so I don't want to say I know whats best but take some time and really evaluate your situation. if you find it's better to leave then do so, it's up to you, keep the people you want around

    • exaustedeveryday

      878d

      🤗

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