The newest rockos modern life movie dealt with being trans really wonderfully. Unfortunately i cant share any real life role models, but i wanted to say i struggled with this for a really long time and sometimes still do. The truth is you have a condition that from in utero messed with the way your body produces hormones (theoretically) and its your right to use medicine to treat that. Its no different than a cis man needing to take testosterone, his hormone condition just developed later.

https://www.fertstert.org/article/S0015-0282(07)01228-9/fulltext