Confused about my sexual orientation, need advice

I haven't either till I did now it silent again and I could care less if someone found out it's who I am but doesn't make me what I am

Ask yourself this; Why does it matter? You're you. Yes, you're part of a wider society and culture that appears to be very sexually orientated, but that doesn't define you. It's a small factor in what makes up you and who you are. Society drives this belief that sex is the be-all and end-all of everything, but it is not. You can find someone attractive and not want to have sex with them. I'd say you're completely normal if I'm honest. I'd also guess you're very unexperienced sexually which is why you appear to have this anxiety around if anything were to happen. Don't compare yourself to society and your peers. Be true to yourself and your own life path if we all developed at the same rate and experienced the same stuff at the same ages as each other, life would be so simple that it'd be worthless. You're valid, you're existence is special, you're you. Never let anyone diminish that!