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faustmare

441d

I have always hated when someone says "Tell me about yourself." Like, tell you what exactly? Be more specific, for real. Being neurodivergent makes it impossible to know who I am, much less know how to talk about myself. Any neurotypical person doesn't seem to get it and get frustrated with you because of it šŸ™„

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    • IceGoddess

      441d

      I can never answer this question. It is too open ended for my brain. But will answer any specific questions you have.

    • Atheris

      440d

      So true! Have the time I'm like why do you want to know and the other like there is nothing to say

    • fleurdemeraude

      440d

      Literally had an essay due for this in English and struggled so hard. I ended up giving definitions like ā€œstudent, daughter, sister, artistā€ etc and got docked points for not giving the right info

    • Nuclearsnot

      440d

      It's so annoying but I usually just copy whatever other people say. I think neurotypicals prefer basic information instead of the more fun stuff šŸ’€ (like where you're from, if you have a pet, major/career). If you mention more than one hobby without being prompted they don't seem to know how to react

    • LotusFlower

      441d

      I almost wrote a book on my introduction entry for my math class and I had to tone it back a lot. So I went with why I was taking her class where I was born and what I hoped to achieve after taking the class šŸ«  I felt so much pressure šŸ¤§

    • FlowMage

      441d

      Oof yes I absolutely feel that. Open ended questions like that were awful for me as a kid especially. Incredibly confusing. From what I understand, the question is actually means something like, ā€œwhatā€™s something about you that can be a jumping off point for further conversationā€. Iā€™ve ended up making a mental list of my likes and hobbies that I can pull out when people ask me that. It generally seems to work. I usually respond with something like ā€œIā€™m an artistā€ or ā€œI like video gamesā€. Then they can ask further questions like ā€œoh, what kind of art do you make?ā€ or ā€œwhat games do you like?ā€ Stuff like that. I hope thatā€™s helpful

    • LolitaRivers

      441d

      I know, right? I've joined groups that have you fill out an "about me" section, and it's like, what do I even write here?!?!

    • TayTayl

      441d

      I always think about this and can never fully answer. I need specifics. Iā€™m like ā€œDo you want my trauma which made me or do you want a basic answer?ā€ I never know what to actually say. Specifics are better for me

    • poodlelover28

      441d

      Yesss I'm like "what do you wanna know?" I usually just spit random facts like my name, my city, my age, my zodiac sign, and things I like to do in my free time. Hopefully this helps give you an idea!

    • Future_Dr._Zebra

      441d

      I just respond, well what would you like to know about me? Which makes it easier for all parties

    • IceGoddess

      441d

      I can never answer this question. It is too open ended for my brain. But will answer any specific questions you have.

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