Seeking Opinions on Friend's Role in Sexual Assault

I am so sorry

Hey, I'm so sorry you have to go through all of that. From one SA survivor to another, none of this was your fault in any way at all. We all believe you and hope you find peace ❤️

How is she still even your friend, after this terrible thing she took part in?

DROP HER @SS!!!! She doesn't deserve you all and you all don't need her toxic self in your all's life. Much love be safe and have a better day or night. ❤️🥰

She's undeniably in the wrong and is absolutely disguising for her actions. I'm so sorry for that experience and it is horrible that anyone would have to go through that. It doesn't seem like a healthy relationship from an outsider view, especially with the trauma she caused into you by proxy. Again I'm sorry for everything I hope it gets better

Hi. I’m really sorry that you experienced this! I obviously don’t know the whole situation, but if she was also drugged, it’s possible that she could be considered a victim as well and may still have lasting effects even if she doesn’t seem to show them or if she even realizes it. Maybe that could be part of the reason for the toxic behavior. I am not attempting WHATSOEVER to justify her behavior or what happened to you or anything. It was terrible and traumatic and criminal and never should have happened and she should not have been involved or be treating you that way (I agree that some distance might be a good idea at this point in time). I also don’t know you or the whole situation. It might be possible that there are more things going on than are readily visible, though. I just wanted to say one other thing. I hope it does not seem insensitive or anything (and I sincerely apologize if it does) and you don’t have to take my suggestion, but in cases of traumatic stories like these, it might be good to put a trigger warning for SA at the beginning. I wish you the best on your journey of healing and finding justice ❤️

Yes I am glad we are all on the same page here. I'm really sorry you experienced that and they are both at fault and you are not. Nasty people will blame the victim or anyone that calls them out on their toxi behavior. I hope you are doing better, are you recovering okay?

I completely agree with @Mouse12144. She is totally in the wrong. This is an awful thing to happen, and I am so sorry it has happened. She is not a friend, and I really think you should try and end the relationship with that friend, as that is never, ever something that anyone, let alone a friend, should do.

She is definitely in the wrong no one should let r@pe happen little own essentially join in on the r@ping, that isn’t a turned toxic friend that is is a toxic person and not a friend at all dump the friend and I would also report them both too the guy is a r@pist and your “friend” is an accomplice to r@pe