I broke up with my boyfriend because he doesn’t understand me and isn’t emotionally available and we argue a lot and I don’t feel seen or heard but he’s still a really great guy and loves me a lot it’s just he wasn’t raised to be in tune with emotions. I’m regretting it now because I’m hurting so much and I love him so much but it’s been almost 2 years of this and it’s not healthy but we really love each other and I don’t want to lose him and see him with someone else. I’m in so much pain right now.
If you already know it's unhealthy maybe you made the right decision. Even if you're the one that broke off the relationship I think it's normal to feel hurt and upset about the break up. Letting go of an unhealthy relationship is hard but it creates room in your life for people who will make an effort to understand and validate you and support you in the ways you need. I hope you are able to find some peace and comfort in your decision even if it takes some time
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I broke up with my boyfriend because he doesn’t understand me and isn’t emotionally available and we argue a lot and I don’t feel seen or heard but he’s still a really great guy and loves me a lot it’s just he wasn’t raised to be in tune with emotions. I’m regretting it now because I’m hurting so much and I love him so much but it’s been almost 2 years of this and it’s not healthy but we really love each other and I don’t want to lose him and see him with someone else. I’m in so much pain right now.
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