Unbearable Menstrual Cramps and Concerns About Pregnancy

Every couple of periods I have unbearable cramps. Sometimes I’m lucky with mild-moderate cramps, like my last period. “Bad period” Symptoms ; * Cramps that leave me moaning n flailing on the floor until I have bruises * Body temperature risen, but no fever * Shifting between vomiting and diarrhea-ing * Typically a very heavy flow once the bleeding starts * Extreme pain first day, and a bit more the second day, but after that it’s tolerable But yesterday (it’s 3am currently), I got my period, barely any blood, and all my usual “bad period” symptoms. I was expecting it to be less painful this time because I kept having mild cramps about a week or so in advance (don’t normally experience that…) Normally I would have bled by now too, but I haven’t. I mean, barely anything has come out. Could I be pregnant? I lost my virginity to my long distance boyfriend June 26 on our first time meeting irl. It was on the first day of my period (wasn’t aware of that till after!). I think we had sex 12+ times during his week long visit - we used condoms until we ran out. Btw it HURT. Bad. Every single time. But I kept doing it bc I expected it to get better but sadly it never did. He never ejaculated but there is a possibility of precum; he thought he came accidentally at one point but there was nothing. I can’t remember when this happened, but awhile ago I got a bit of orangey-pink blood when I wiped? Way before my period started. Idk if that’s implantation bleeding or smth similar, cuz I’ve never experienced that. It was one time only, didn’t spot. Anyways my main concern is that I had all my usual suffering but barely any blood. Not normal for me. I’d like to get a pregnancy test bc my boyfriend keeps freaking me out about the possibility. But I live w my anti-abortion mom in my anti-abortion state, currently without a drivers license, annndd I’m unemployed. The only way I can get a test is if my bf mails one, but he’s afraid of my mom seeing the package. So yeah :( any additional information on why sex hurts every time would also be appreciated. He said I was really wet + blood is a lubrication, so I’m scared it’s smth deeper than being dry