Therapist told me to stop therapy, but I wasn't ready

I'm really sorry that you experienced this 😥. I wouldn't say that it was your fault. Sounds like you need to find a therapist who is you feel comfortable with and that you can eventually trust. If you don't feel comfortable with the therapist then you won't be able to get any assistance. It's a two way situation but the therapist should be able to be the one who helps you build trust in them and it has to be genuine. Are you able to access another therapist. I don't know many 16 year olds who have all the tools. You could try calling that one you saw that's if you feel comfortable with them. They might have said what they did out of reflex if they were court appointed. You could say that you would like to learn some new skills. But only if you feel comfortable with them. It feels awkward and uncomfortable.