Struggling to Trust People After Being Betrayed by Friends

I know that feeling really well

Definitely in need of friends.... all the 'friends' I've had never called or texted me and never wanted to hang out unless I had something to offer...😥 One day I just stopped reaching out and found out how many friends I really had waited a good year or so then blocked and deleted them.🤷‍♀️ It helped me feel a little better but it sucks not having anyone to talk to. And talk things through with... humans are social creatures and I'm sick of being abused and used by every human I have met... I have been gave up in real life, humans in the real are too fake. We have no reason to hid nothing here. We all are the same just another human.❤️ 🙏 And just to add to all those 'normal' people... there is no such thing as 'normal' and if you think so, your more cray cray than the rest of us, 🤣.

I feel like i get along better with people on the internet than i do in real life lmao. I cannot go out and talk to people because of anxiety so me and my fiance stay to ourselves lol

i felt this so hard. i have a best friend and my bf and that’s pretty much all my social interaction outside of work and my family. i had a friend group of 5 in middle school, we all drifted apart once we hit high school since some moved and others went to a different high school. i became closer to two other friends i had and they were pretty much all i had through high school (they were great tho). im still friends with them i guess you could say, but i never talk to or see them irl. the way im getting through it is telling myself if its meant to be it will be. the right people will come around when they should. don’t force relationships with people, it should come easy and naturally. relationships of any kind should not feel like a chore or a burden on either end. you may feel alone now, but better days and better, effortless people are coming. in the meantime, create a better relationship with yourself. i don’t know you, so i can’t speak for you, but a lot of people don’t really know themselves or how their body or mind works. once you start learning and picking up on it, it makes things SO much easier just all around imo. it helped me distinguish what was a boundary, a trigger, and what just didn’t make me feel good. and on the flip side what made me thrive, what i need to do to succeed (in any amount), and overall gave me the feeling of being in control to a degree. im no good with words, but i hope this helps! ❤️

I'd be happy to be your friend! I didn't have a lot of friends growing up, and even now, I only have 3 friends that I can really trust

I am here if u want to talk