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Gwen71

526d

Anyone just got out of a narcissist relationship? I'm trying not to go back to him but it's soooo hard.I think they call it "tarama bonding"...

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    • Gwen71

      521d

      @MONA888 Thank you.

    • MONA888

      522d

      Gwen,start making secret plans to leave, he will never change and you deserve all the happiness in the world 🌎 ❀️ Don't ever forget that πŸ€—

      • Gwen71

        521d

        @MONA888 Thank you.

    • ChrysB

      526d

      Gwen you can do this. Back yourself out of the picture. If this was a friend or family member, would you want them to go back into a damaging situation? Protect yourself Gwen. You're so worth it. Spend time loving yourself and try to get some counseling to recover from the injuries he's caused. It's ok to be single and grow. Nurture yourself and allow yourself to heal. Learning the role you played in the last relationship will help you better be armed to defend yourself from future mistreatment. Come on girl! You got this! God bless you Dear!

      • Gwen71

        526d

        @ChrysB thank you πŸ™πŸ€—

    • Sincerely

      526d

      You can never move forward going backwards. Breath in, breath out. Remember the reasons why you left. Deep breath in, deep breath out. You summoned the courage and strength to leave already, the hard part is done. Just keep moving forward. Breath in, breath out, and let go....πŸ’•. We'll proud of you. All you have to do now is: JUST. KEEP. MOVING. FORWARD. Write a short story about him and beat him up in it. πŸ€£πŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎ

      • Gwen71

        526d

        @Sincerely 9ooo that sounds good...πŸ‘

    • Jen_73

      526d

      Yes girl, they call it trauma bonded... My stbx husband is the biggest narcissist... If you look up the word, there is his pic!!! He does nothing wrong... EVER!!! it's all me and everyone else... He's a saint!!! Block him, girl.. try to leave him blocked!!! You need time to heal, time for yourself... Put yourself first, because I'm sure you never could!! And putting yourself first is not being selfish regardless of what he tells you!!! Good luck, babygirl πŸ’œ

      • Gwen71

        526d

        @Jen_73 thank you sooo much.Im trying NOT to go back to him. I know I'll find better men out there who will love me for me and NOT what I can do for them....✌️πŸ˜₯

        • Jen_73

          526d

          @Gwen71 .. Yes, narcissist only want woman who are week... They prey on the week... They only want woman that will do for them... And only them!!! God forbid you have kids... We didn't, together... But, he even had to come before my kids!!! NEVER AGAIN!!!

        • Jen_73

          526d

          @Gwen71 ... Absolutely you will!! Because I did! The man I'm with now is the polar opposite!!! He does for me, wants for me... Everything is for me!!! I'm just a message away if you every need to talk!!! You got this πŸ’œ

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