My Mother is Acting Like a Child and It's Driving Me Crazy

I think she’s dealing with pain in her own way. It probably hurts her that you have to take meds in the first place hence the “fine I’ll just drug you up” thing that you mentioned. Her way of “coping” with the situation is to be angry and controlling. I wouldn’t take it personally when she snaps at you. Maybe have a talk with her if that’s possible? I don’t know the entire situation so make decisions on your own accord

If you have the option on your health portal to send a message to your doctor, send a message prior to your appointment asking them to ask your mother to leave or not allow her in the room for the appointment.

Wow that’s not right how she treats you. She sounds like a child. 😡😡😡😡😡

I am bed ridden I can’t go anywhere on my own. I’m never alone.

If your of legal age, she shouldn't be doing that 😳 talk to your doctor about that and write it down for evidence.

😳 Talk to your doctor or therapist

I agree with other posters to speak with your doctor and your mom together on a phone conference so your mom understands the proper doses for all your medications

How old are you? Either way, please confide in a doctor.

🙌may i ask how old r u ??

I'm so sorry. I struggle with my mother too, as well as other relationships. I hope you find peace and resolution. Be careful, consistency is important with your meds and anyone that messes with that is not helping.

That seems very unsafe. Maybe you can talk to your doctor about this.