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Hi. I am only 49 years old and awaiting a total hip replacement on both hips. The pain is excruciating and debilitating but surgeons refuse to do surgery until my BMI is reduced! Being “big” all my life does not make this process easy at all. I feel as if outsiders do not and cannot totally understand and have been looking for others in my same situation to help with the mental aspect of all of this. :)
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I was told to lose 35 lbs to get my BMI down because of the risk of infection in the replaced joint would mean taking it out until it heals and putting it back in! So, I'm down 20 and hoping I won't need the surgery when I get to 35 because I'll be able to do the healing exercise like DDPYOGA. Also, the kneesovertoesguy (Ben Patrick) provide alot of hope. Both on youtube. Also eating a primarily meat based diet nourishes the parts that hurt!
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If they said to lose a certain amount of weight so you can recover than I would understand. Doctors do not have the right to be jerks just because they are doctors. Most that I know are the unhealthiest people on the planet!
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@Sexycop you are right about that!
As a surgical nurse, it is important to lose some weight for such surgeries. It helps with healing, decreases complications like from the affects of anesthesia, and helps in being able to do PT exercises more efficiently to make it so you can have a better quality of life. You don’t need a new doctor; find a nutritionist to help you get to the needed BMI. It will be worth it in the end.
@Marmy5 I understand that too-but I do not think anybody should have to live with debilitating hip pain and the inability to walk and function. Unless somebody is going thru it you can never say you understand it. Not being able to walk makes so many daily life tasks very difficult. I cannot tell you how embarrassing it is to have to worry about making it to the bathroom fast enough when you cannot control your speed. Or needing to bend over to pick something up. It’s no longer a feeling of actually living. Right now it’s just surviving.
Omg I am so glad to hear from you! I agree! I am at a BMI of 44 and they refuse to do the surgery until I am at a BMI of 40! Which is equivalent of a 50 pound weight reduction! As time passes I find myself loosing more of my ability to walk and due to the bone I n bone hips my knees are now over compensating and are starting to hurt. I have seen three ortho drs and all of them say the same thing but in the same breath say how severe my hips are! Are you as frustrated with doctors as I am? :) thank you so much for reaching out to me!
What does your BMI have to do with your hips needing replaced? BMI was established to make sure people could fit in a coffin in the old days! I don’t think you should do them at the same time for logistical purposes, but I think I would get a second opinion. I am 52 and due to trauma I have lost an inch in height. My weight is consistent and only changes 5 lbs up and down. I wear a size 12/14. I am “clinically obese”. They (whomever decided this and use this as a decision on my health) can jump off a cliff. My bp is low, my glucose is low and my cholesterol levels continue to get lower. (Also a hereditary issue) Do you and don’t let anyone tell you no! This is your body! Good luck! 👍
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