Struggling to Help My Depressed Girlfriend

She sounds like my ex… I am very very glad that I left him… that’s all imma say

I’m gonna be very blunt and say that you need to put yourself first and do what’s best for you. This is not right at all.

I’m so sorry she’s treating you this way, first of all…you definitely don’t deserve that. As a gf to my bf of 12 years, (we both have problems with anxiety, depression, rages etc. ), Ive always made sure that even if I lash out at him during my episodes, that I apologize and we both have a mutual Understanding of reconciliation; the other always has to feel loved and respected at the end of it. And that’s how she should be making you feel! Definitely communicate a hard line to her. That’s NOT okay! I know it might be painful but some distance might be the healthiest thing you can do :) Here if you wanna chat

I've gone through the same thing. Our breakup was the only healthy thing that we experienced in a long time.

im going to be honest. breaking up is a very valid option for you. it does not sound like she’s with you for you, more with you because you’re there for her. put yourself first! its the least you can do for yourself.