Negligence in Healthcare: My Struggle with Misdiagnosis

I am honestly very angry with the healthcare system in America. After YEARS of testing I found out that all of these specialists and doctors have overlooked abnormal blood results relating to my calcium levels. All of my symptoms are consistent with this. years of doctors telling me that Im fine and it's because I'm overweight. So I lost the weight and have developed an eating disorder and I feel WORSE than I did when I was considered "obese". I have NOT been taken care of properly as a woman. I could have felt better years ago but because of this negligence by these so called specialists, I have been suffering. this suffering has resulted in severe depression and suicidal tendencies. I am tired of having to fight every day. doctors should be advocating for patients, I shouldn't have to fight tooth and nail to have questions answered and I shouldn't be challenged for symptoms that are clearly legitimate. I am just so tired and idk how much more I can take.