i feel like im the only one who tries in my friend group

i host events, choose activies, and organize, but no one ever just goes in my dms or up to me and says hi "we should" or how are you today

i just feel underappreciated a lot lately and its bumming me out


Attention-Deficit Disorder

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

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  • AlexaRoberts


    I felt the same way before. I realized if they don't appreciate what I do and see how I am doing then why should I have them in my life. Theirs no need to have someone in your life if they don't appreciate you. Just a simple "How are you" makes me feel appreciated. No need to feel unappreciated if you can do something about it. Try talking to them about how your feeling. They may not realize it.

  • SunInAugust


    Have you tried asking directly for someone else to plan things? I'm sure there is a kind and open way of asking that wouldn't make people defensive

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