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Willow_Rose

741d

I feel like my partner is slowly backing away from me. I will text and he’ll take forever to respond. I’ll want to call and he’s always in another call but doesn’t want to call me until later. That’s if he remembers. I feel like I’m an afterthought. Am I being too needy? Am I irrational? I just don’t know anymore. I love him and he says he loves me but his actions are indicating that I am not that important. I just don’t know what to do. If I talk to him about it, there’s a fight.

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    • ElaineP

      740d

      Willow Rose, he is not meeting your needs and then he gets angry when you want to talk about it? Those are huge red flags! Don’t waste anymore time with this guy, you deserve much better. If you stay with this guy you WILL regret it! And regret all the time you wasted with him getting breadcrumbs of his love, instead of getting all of someone’s love like you deserve

    • ElaineP

      740d

      Willow Rose, he is not meeting your needs and then he gets angry when you want to talk about it? Those are huge red flags! Don’t waste anymore time with this guy, you deserve much better. If you stay with this guy you WILL regret it! And regret all the time you wasted with him getting breadcrumbs of his love, instead of getting all of someone’s love like you deserve

    • Kim156

      741d

      Your feelings are valid. I spent two years in a relationship with someone who said he loved me but didn’t show it through his actions. You deserve to be loved and valued. If you’re not getting that from your partner, don’t be afraid to walk away- especially when your feelings are being reciprocated with anger- that’s not very loving.

    • JD3

      741d

      Your feeling are valid! Trust what you are feeling. You are worth healthy communication.

    • CmcC

      741d

      You aren't being needy I promise, your needs just aren't being met! Have you tried to sit them down and bring up how you're feeling? I'm so sorry you're in that situation it sounds difficult and if you need anyone to chat to my dms are open! 💕

      • Willow_Rose

        741d

        @CmcC thank you so much! I have tried to talk to him about it but it doesn’t end well.

        • CmcC

          741d

          @Willow_Rose I'm sorry that he's not willing to talk things through, it probably make things really difficult for you I'm sorry 😥💕

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