Dealing with Rejection: When People Leave Your Life

I used to feel like that as well. But the reality of it is, sometimes that space is needed to see who we are as individuals. If you aren't living together you have to remember that you have separate lives. I live with my family and so does the person I have 😍 for ya know. They also have children and I don't. But I have siblings who I have to be responsible for sometimes because our parents work and my grandmother is retired and grumpy. But hey such is life. I have more time on my hands than he does because of the different type of work we do. I'm in an office job right now. He works in a hard labor job that's more taxing the my job. I had to understand that. So I just text once a day maybe twice saying I love you have a good day or good night and I refocus on myself. I'm in school, I'm taking 3 courses now. So there are more things that I need to focus on. Self love, self connection, self empowerment. Men sometimes seclude themselves and they don't know how to communicate but they do think about us. They just don't express it like we do. Just something to think about. This was a discussion I had with my guy and that was the understanding I got from him.