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BethanyWatson

657d

Okay, so this is about my relationship. My boyfriend and I haven't called in the last 10 days. Every time I asked to call, he'd just say he didn't want to. We barely talk anyways, but I want to talk more. He barely answers. I called him out of nowhere today, and he seemed reluctant to talk. After about 2 minutes into the call, he made an excuse and hung up. I feel like he's avoiding me but I don't know how to approach it. He might be busy a lot but I have no idea. Also, we are both teenagers still in school, and don't have jobs. I don't know what to think about this. Is he avoiding me, or am I just over thinking things again? Please let me know and if you have any advice, feel free to comment it please. 👍🏻- You're over thinking things ❤- You're not over thinking things, he's avoiding you. 😥- Other

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    • SourLemons

      657d

      i'd say ❤️ he has the right to spend his time on whatever he wants, but when in a relationship, engaging with your SO should be a top priority. he should make time for you and it's okay for you to desire that. the next chance you do get to talk with him, i'd bring it up directly and upfront. getting to talk regularly is a basic tenet of maintaining a relationship, romantic or not, and i think it's more than reasonable to ask for that. you deserve that and more, promise. i hope the relationship works out for you. sending hugs ♡

    • SourLemons

      657d

      i'd say ❤️ he has the right to spend his time on whatever he wants, but when in a relationship, engaging with your SO should be a top priority. he should make time for you and it's okay for you to desire that. the next chance you do get to talk with him, i'd bring it up directly and upfront. getting to talk regularly is a basic tenet of maintaining a relationship, romantic or not, and i think it's more than reasonable to ask for that. you deserve that and more, promise. i hope the relationship works out for you. sending hugs ♡

    • Cece7

      657d

      I would straight up tell him that this is Bothering you and let him know what you would like to change. Tell him you want him to make time for you. That isn’t asking for much and you deserve someone who will give you their time to make you feel loved. If he can’t give you what you need it may be time for you to leave him and move on. Make yourself a priority. 💕

    • Cece7

      657d

      ❤️

    • Mamma_Maria

      657d

      ❤️

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