@SeerClub I can see you’re trying and you’re doing a great job! I’m not putting anything against you, but he is sticking with you because he loves you. Do not let your thoughts get you all mixed up on that fact. Regardless of what you do, he loves YOU. I don’t know much about your situation of course, but loving involves loving people for their flaws, through their ups and downs, etc. Everyone goes through things, and now is a hard time for you, and that’s okay. He has stuff going on too, and that’s also okay. A relationship is a thing where you help each other through those things, build each other from the ground up, and intertwine yourself with the other through those healing processes. My favorite gifts I’ve ever been given are the smallest, a Polaroid of my friend’s dogs, a little tiny toy dragon, a CD, a smile on a piece of paper. Of course, again, I don’t know your situation, but your gift should be well appreciated. You said it yourself, you want to show that you listen to him and love him, and your gift will do exactly that :)