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Ms.Ruckman32

489d

I without a doubt get used by my family and truly under appreciated and it's my fault cause I let it happen...I babysit frequently I give them food when needed I give them my time. Why? Because I spent a lifetime babysitting my sister's kids. I'm like a secondary mother to these kids I love them like my own. I don't ask for money nor do I receive any payment for helping. It's kinda of expected of me. But I now that I'm failing in health or reach out for help I'm not worth anyone's time or thoughts. I only do this just because of the children. There is so much more too this story so much more then I can simply explain in one post. I'm just feeling worthless and a burden and feel overwhelmed. It's days like this I really wanna just disappear and not exist. I'll never be good enough.

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    • Dezmari

      471d

      @motor you and me both

    • motor

      471d

      I have family that doesn't understand

      • Dezmari

        471d

        @motor you and me both

    • kelby

      486d

      Omg this is me right now trust me I understand 100 percent boo

    • Aaronb03

      489d

      It's really important to take care of yourself first, especially if you care for others, because you need to be healthy and as strong as your body allows to take care of the people you love. If you tell your sister about how you're feeling, and remind her how much you care about her and her kids, but that you need more balance to stay healthy, I'd hope that she's understand. Talk to her about planning further ahead, and schedule some time that's just for you as well

    • Dezmari

      489d

      It’s hard. Just remember that you are good enough that’s why those people need you but you shouldn’t let them take advantage anymore cause you’re hurting yourself by not giving your self time to you

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