Feeling Excluded from a Group Event Because of My Disability

Idk how to feel. So my college friends there’s an overall group of 9 of us including me that were supposed to go to this girls birthday party. At the middle to end of march sometime she explained what she wanted to do with us all. Ice skating and sushi place after. I can do neither because ice skating- my disability and sushi- I get sick from fish. I explained multiple times from then to tonight that I can’t do this because of my disability that I didn’t ask for and tbh I haven’t told them this because I don’t want to start anything but all 8 of them are going and I’m not and nobody cares like the girl just said “ok” and left it at that. Every time I’ve said I can’t do it nobody has thought “maybe we’re making her feel left out” “maybe we can change it for that day and that group of ppl” etc. they just say ok and nothing else. I feel like I’ve fell on deaf ears and im getting left out of a group thing for my own disability and no body has tried to move things around for me even in the slightest. Or even listened to me or understood what I was trying to say. It feel incredibly rude, frustrating, sad and like they just don’t get me at all or they can’t even be bothered to try to change things because they have a friend with a disability so I basically just feel like a burden. They’ve also been weird about other things and we’ve had to do because of my disability which was a really simple thing that I’m still struggling with no matter how many times I tell them. I feel like a burden. I know it’s her birthday but I feel like I’ve just been excluded by some of the ONLY things I can’t do and nobody even cares they just cut me out and said ok. I do have a sleepover with her the next weekend but the response to the main event (basically the party) has really had an effect on me. Nobody even said sorry u can’t come just nothing. I feel like a burden and like I’m not being heard about my own disability. Nobody understands and it pains me so much and angers me.