Struggling with Disabilities Impacting Friendships

I would suggest befriending people who have similar conditions as you.

So it sounds harsh but she's not exactly a real friend if she's using your pain like this. Don't get me wrong, I know how hard it is to be around me when I'm in constant pain, or a doctor has called me names, or someone has told me it's all in my head, but my friends all tell me to take a second to breathe, they all try to make my life easier, even if it's bringing me a chocolate muffin and a red bull on a Friday night because I can't get out of bed. It's hard when you're young and everyone is out having a great time and you're stuck in bed crying in agony, but real ones won't mind a night in with pizza and games while you prop yourself in the comfiest position and just chill.

I'm not gonna lie. I get what she means even though I completely get how you're feeling! It feels a little insensitive in my biased opinion. If she really does leave I don't think you should be worried for your friendship. I'm also in university. When we left highschool I was terrified that my friends would ditch me since "they had no reason to deal with me" and I could never be that "go with the flow friend" but the ones that really cared about me kept checking in on me. We still text about life and dumb things. AND there's the wonder of scheduling. I know I can't just go out and do whatever for an indefinite amount of time so I make sure my friends understand that and we schedule time. Most importantly, whatever you can handle or do is it! There is no reason to feel guilty!!! Real friends understand that.

Wait! Wdym? I completely get not being able to be with my friends as much, but I hope they're not being judgemental or insensitive!