Dealing with PTSD flashbacks and dating

I have severe ptsd- been free from traumas for 3 years. I met my husband and it was hard at first but it got easier over the first year. I have needed to communicate all the possible things that might trigger something and he understands them and does his best. Sometimes in an argument or sex though I get triggered anyways but he is good about helping me. Its always good to communicate boundaries once you know you want to be with them or especially after they trigger something.

I agree with the alike wisdom. but may I ask how often you are having these flashbacks? and how long do they typically last? and what are your triggers? also, what are your coping mechanisms? im guessing it was physical abuse? was there also verbal abuse? please don't feel pressured to answer anything you don't feel comfortable with. I don't want to make you feel worse, and if answering those questions makes it harder for you, i definitely don't want to do that. I'm only asking because I may be able to give you a couple of ideas on how to make things get better or at least make a huge improvement. I've been in your situation, and so has my mom and my sister in law. I'm so sorry that you've also gone through this, love. nobody should ever have to go through this. it breaks my heart. I'm so very glad you were able to leave that horrible relationship. your new guy sounds wonderful. it's a really good sign that you can talk to him about all this and that he seems so understanding. but I do understand you wanting to feel completely healed before committing yourself to someone else. I'd love to chat with you. Just message me anytime. you've got this love, and I believe you will get past this. unfortunately, you'll never forget it, but it would be great for you if you weren't dealing with flashbacks and triggers. hang in there, and like I said, message me anytime. you are stronger than you think ❤️‍🩹❤️