How to deal with jealousy in a polyamorous long distance relationship?

@D3stiny if she has problems with it, she can tell you and they can be resolved. If you feel like you need to date someone to “get even” with her(my words based on what im inferring, they may not be accurate) maybe the situation isnt for you. I understand and believe you really love her, but its a good idea to look at the entire picture and see if its really right for you. If you have issues with abandonment, that might be a good enough reason to need a monogamous partner. And like i said before, you may be monogamous. If you feel in your heart, in the back of your mind, that she will become jealous or be upset if you are with another partner, you may not be polyamorous. Its something innate within us, not everyone is, and thats okay. You cant help it. I dont know you, Im not pushing this on you, im not great with wording so im not sure how else to say it. I just think its worth thinking about. Ive been in that kind of relationship, albeit a monogamous one, where i was scared of abandonment and needed constant reassurance. It was draining on us both and i wish i had cut it off earlier. A relationship where you constantly have to question where you stand is not a stable one.