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Regarding my last post about how I think catching feelings for my best friend (who’s also a girl and straight her love language is just touch) I’ve recently come out as most likely bisexual and to add some context she knows this and is very supportive (and also guessed it when she first met me) my love language is touch (both platonic and romantic) and I love hugs etc. but this is different. Ever since last year I’ve found her physically attractive on and off. Then what I think is most likely romantic feelings started. Again on and off but rn I’m going to explain what they feel like. While my love language is touch and I love hugs if any other friend hugged me I’d be happy and think “that’s sweet” but not really want to do anything. With this girl I crave her touch constantly, it makes me feel amazing and she’s left from our sleepover now and I can still feel her touch and the way we snuggled. It felt like my life was complete in that moment but awkward at the same time as I was hiding the fact that this didn’t feel platonic to me. To clear something up I didn’t want to get naked or anything but kissing yes maybe and spooning etc yes. Ppl on Reddit have told me this is just bc my love language is touch but I like touch off anyone close to me and it’s never felt like this. I felt tingly and warm and so happy. I’ve imagined us as a couple and I like the thought a lot. Still I don’t know sexually but that’s something else. Tbh I might land somewhere on the asexual spectrum and I’m still figuring out my sexuality but I don’t like the idea of sex that much. I experience attraction with ppl but the idea of being kinky or sexy or someone touching my privates or vice versa or them making me feel something down there I do not feel any interest in. I feel inches away from kissing her or putting leg over hers when we snuggle. I do think this is romantic attraction and I cannot tell her but venting feels good so I’d love to hear from u guys if u read this far.

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