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Marmar656

815d

I have been on the fence about what I should do next. I had top surgery 9 months ago and I want to become a dad someday I am starting to look in to firtilty treatments but after.. all that I don't know if I want to have bottom surgery. I know it doesn't make me less of a man to not have it but I want opinions what other think on what they think about bottom surgery. anything helps really.

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    • KirbyWirby

      802d

      I don't want to have kids, but I also don't want bottom surgery. It's just not something I feel attracted to. I want top surgery and to go on T but I honestly could care less about what's in my pants and don't want to have to recover from another surgery. I think it's great that you want to have kids tho! That's going to be such an exciting journey!

    • KirbyWirby

      802d

      I don't want to have kids, but I also don't want bottom surgery. It's just not something I feel attracted to. I want top surgery and to go on T but I honestly could care less about what's in my pants and don't want to have to recover from another surgery. I think it's great that you want to have kids tho! That's going to be such an exciting journey!

    • piney

      805d

      I think if you feel good and like a guy how you are, you don't need bottom surgery. Everybody is unique.

    • Weevil

      815d

      Definitely nothing wrong with not getting bottom surgery! I've been on T for a few years and I intend to get top surgery but not bottom surgery. I've always wanted to have kids, but in my head that's always been by means of adoption. Anyhow, the good news is that if you don't particularly want bottom surgery, that probably won't affect most areas of your life. Most people aren't going to see your privates, so the only area of life that might be affected one way or another is your sex life. Bottom surgery definitely isn't necessary if it doesn't cause you debilitating dysphoria. Transition isn't linear or universal. Whatever surgeries or treatments you do or don't get are your business alone. You know yourself better than anyone else can know you. Whatever you decide, let it be based solely on your wants/needs. Don't choose based on anyone else's expectations. Take care, my friend.

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