Is My Boyfriend Forcing Himself to Be Attracted to Me?

Do you mean recently or at all? If you mean you haven't been intimate at all, perhaps he just isn't ready for that yet. Or maybe he doesn't even want that in a relationship. If you mean you haven't been intimate recently, there may be something going on in your relationship or his personal life that has put intimacy on the back burner for him. There have been times that my boyfriend and I were not intimate for a few months because I was just so stressed all the time that I was never in the mood. Whatever the reason is, you won't know until you ask him. Make sure to create a safe, positive space for you to talk. Making accusations will not help. Rather, express your concerns related to the lack of intimacy and ask why it's going on.

I think honesty is the best policy. Talk to him about how you feel. Intimacy comes from communication and openness.