Postponed Wedding Woes: Need to Vent

I'm so sorry for your loss. These things can be difficult to navigate but I think you two are making the right choice. If you're in love, you'll be together anyways, so might as well wait to get married til you're both emotionally ready. My husband and I got married in 2020. Our parents weren't able to be there in person and had to watch on Zoom. My dad was upset he couldn't walk me down the aisle. I had second thoughts right up to the moment I said "I do". Now I don't regret being married to him, but regret the wedding, or lack thereof. We're going to do a vow renewal with family eventually, when money allows for it, but whenever I think about the "wedding" I feel disappointed. All this to say, don't rush yourselves. Wait until you're fully ready and have had time to mourn your loss. You both have my condolences. Take care of yourselves 💜

Sending all the love and support! You’re gonna be a beautiful bride! Sometimes life is really sucky just before it gets really good. Their grandmother sounds lovely, and hopefully her memory can still make your wedding magical and special. I’m sorry it’s impossibly hard (understatement), but here’s a free imaginary hug if you want it. You’re doing so much and being so strong and taking care of college, your relationship, and dealing with grief is a lot to handle. No matter what happens, you are a beautiful human and you both deserve the world!

my brother is getting married this saturday, our grandfather just passed away at the beginning of april. it’s going to be very hard on a lot of people to look and see that he isn’t there. him and his fiancé decided to wait until she graduated college to get married to try and have the least amount of stress as possible. i hope that you guys can get this all figured out and when the time is right it will come and be wonderful!! wishing you the best of luck!!