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Constant Accusations from Boyfriend

Nina915

445d

Idk what to do anymore my boyfriend constantly accuses me of having someone else . We are fine for a few days then he wakes up in these moods where hes accusing me for no reason and telling me i can do better . Its really making me depressed. He has told me in the past he was diagnosed as bipolar but now denies it , i can tell something is up and down with his moods though.

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    • DogWhisperer

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      This is also narcissistic behavior. My brother is this way with my best friend. Also abusive physically. He's constantly accusing her of cheating on him and talking to other guys. But he's the one who did the cheating. If he's not hitting you right now, you need to get out before it starts. Get as far away as possible and never look back. Ive been there as well. Now i have Ptsd because of it. Loud sudden noises scare the hell out of me to the point of crying. I havent tried getting into a relationship for about 6 years or so because I'm too afraid to. Please be careful. Good luck sweety. ❤️

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    • DogWhisperer

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      This is also narcissistic behavior. My brother is this way with my best friend. Also abusive physically. He's constantly accusing her of cheating on him and talking to other guys. But he's the one who did the cheating. If he's not hitting you right now, you need to get out before it starts. Get as far away as possible and never look back. Ive been there as well. Now i have Ptsd because of it. Loud sudden noises scare the hell out of me to the point of crying. I havent tried getting into a relationship for about 6 years or so because I'm too afraid to. Please be careful. Good luck sweety. ❤️

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    • mthebrave

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      My ex had skitzophrenia and would accuse me every time he forgot to take his medicine. He mentally hijacked me and mentally harassed me. Now I have PTSD nightmares about him. I tried to date someone new, but I had his name constantly in my head. I found out he was charged by police with battery for hitting his ex-girlfriend outside a club after accusing her of chesting because she complimented a man's beard. Their behaviour has nothing to do with mental health, Bipolar or Scitzophrenia, they are simply abusive. Nobody deserves to be harrased, questioned, and stalked. Waking up in your bedroom is your safe space. One time I woke up and my ex accused me of pleasuring myself next to him while he was asleep, he ended up having paranoid delusions that I was sleeping with my neighbour when I was out at my nieces baptism. I've never heard my neighbours. Nobody deserves to be accused, harrased, stalked. I kept giving him second chances because of his mental health and autism but it only got worse. Even as friends after we broke up, he would harras me if I didn't respond to his facebook message after a few minutes. Please please stay safe and take care of yourself first!! My inbox is always open if you need to chat. 💕

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      • mthebrave

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        @mthebrave I'm really sorry the accusations aren't going to go away or get any better, They don’t want to hear the truth they already have a story in their mind.

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    • ForeverFatiguedCat

      445d

      That's very verbally abusive. My bf wasn't that way before and now he's saying terrible things. I'm on biologics and tired and I'm too tired to tolerate it anymore. I just ignore him and refuse to play with him. Fuck these behaviors! Sorry, I'm so tired of it too. I hope he stops.

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    • SecondChance

      445d

      You shouldn't tell him about us then 😮

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    • Satans_lil_devil

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      If he has admitted to a previous diagnosis I would always keep that in mind. That being said this sounds a little like projection. You should ask them why they think you are unfaithful, what exactly is giving them that idea. It may be something you can explain to settle his nerves or if it's outlandish claims. Either way it is a stressful situation and you should take time to think

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