Dealing with Family Criticism

How do you deal with family? I just spent the weekend with family and before me and my mom left she made a comment about me not having any ambition and it hurt. She said it was a joke but still. I have a bachelors and a masters degree. I worked 60 hours the last semester of masters school when I was a full time student. I am now making about 18 an hour working a very physical job being the only AFAB in the field. And because I can’t afford a place on my own or a car bc of where I live I am not ambitious. Or want to change companies when I have respect where I am and won’t have any in a new place. Like I have ended up crying bc of how I struggled to find a job and no one would hire me. So for her to say I am not ambitious even as a “joke” hurts. How do you deal with it bc I am at a loss rn.